Today and tomorrow, I’m catching up by commenting on two films from last week’s Cinequest 22.
In the thoughtful French film Four Lovers, two happily married couples hit it off socially. They quickly decide that it’s okay to have sex with each others’ spouses. It’s not “spouse swapping”. It’s an arrangement whereby both couples continue to live as couples, but each adds a permitted fling with one of the other couple.
Plenty of explicit sex follows, but this is not primarily an erotic film. Instead it explores what follows from this arrangement. What rules need to be agreed upon? Is there jealousy and/or insecurity? Will anyone go past the fling to fall in love with the new partner? Can one be in love with more than one lover? Can they keep this from their kids? How deeply do they need their new lovers? How will this affect the original marriages?
It’s all complicated. In fact, I think that watching this movie would be far superior than trying this out in real life.
Spoiler Alert: After the arrangement ends, the couples return to their original married lives. Something is missing in their lives, but it’s not the sexual thrill of the affairs. Instead each grieves the loss of a lover. Given this loss, all four are unhappy for the first time in the film and perhaps wishing that it had never happened.
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